Wednesday, December 19, 2007

Nielson Family Hightlights for 2007

Tyler - Another year, another job. As soon as Ty takes a new job, he's already eying his next move, and this year he became the engineering manager for his team. He's loving the new challenges and learning that come with the position. In addition to working long hours, Ty works hard to be a great husband and father, playing with the girls, taking Mindy on dates, traveling, and keeping the lawn looking beautiful. One of his big accomplishments this year was biking all 72 miles around Lake Tahoe.

Mindy - Between the kids, the travels, and building the house across the street, life has been busy and fulfilling. I took my first cruise, went to Rancho la Puerta spa for a week with my mom and sisters, and took a trip to Morocco - all such amazing experiences. I've been managing the construction of a custom spec house for my parents, picking out all the finishes, and making all those little decisions on how everything comes together. It's been a wonderful outlet for creativity and it gives me something to do that's my own. Up next, potty training Lilly. She's totally ready, but I need to train myself to take the time to train her.

Ava - It's been a big year for Ava. She continues to grow and mature at an astounding rate. Her big accomplishments this year were becoming potty trained and starting preschool (both in the month of August). Her favorite things were camping, taking dance lessons, and traveling to Disneyland, Tahoe, Hawaii, and her grandparents' house. She loves celebrating holidays, especially Halloween, Christmas, and birthdays.

Lilly - This time last year, Lilly was just learning to walk, so I'm sure you can imagine just how many changes have taken place this year. Her favorite thing is a music class she does with her mommy. When she's not at music class, she spends her time singing the songs over, and over, and over. We were all a little shocked that she could sing her ABC's and count to 5 before her 2nd birthday, but with a big sister and 5 cousins around all the time, she's got to work hard to keep up.

For Fashion or Fishing?

The Best Deal EVER!


Let me tell you how excited I was when I found 12 colored Sharpie pens at the dollar store. What an amazing deal!

Now let me tell you how delightfully disappointed I was to discover that I had unknowingly purchased Shapely pens. If they don't work, at least I got a good laugh for my dollar.

Friday, December 14, 2007

I Believe In Santa's Cause

Between the details of the nativity and Santa, Ava is, of course, confused. Lately she spends her days asking question after question:

Where was Jesus born? Can we go see him?
Can we go to the north pole? Can't we just take an airplane to get there?
Why does this Santa have glasses? There are two Santas?
Will Jesus get me a present for Christmas?

Each question is followed by a lengthy discussion, leading to more questions. It's a lot for a 3 year-old to wrap her mind around, and I don't necessarily have answers that make sense for her. Sometimes, I worry she's being overly confused and manipulated with the stories, but also enjoy watching the wheels turn in her brain as she works it out. There is nothing sweeter than to witness her trying her hardest to land on Santa's nice list, not only to get the goods on Christmas morning, but because she believes it "makes Jesus' heart happy."

My earliest Christmas memories most often include the Statler Brothers playing in the background. If you didn't grow up listening to this music, it might not be your first choice, but I have a special place in my heart for their Christmas songs. As I watch Ava trying to make sense of Christmas, I think about the words to their song, "I Believe in Santa's Cause," which basically says that whatever you believe or disbelieve, there is no doubting the magic Santa brings to a child's life. So with all the confusion, I think that whether your focus is on Christ's birth or Santa, the overall message of Christmas is about being kind and generous to family, friends, and strangers. And that's good.

Thursday, December 13, 2007

A Moment to Vent

I know, I know. It's the holidays and I have a million reasons to be happy. I just have a few things I need to vent about before I continue with the festivities.

1. The writer's strike is seriously affecting my TV addiction.
2. I drove all the way to the Great Mall today to go to the Stride Rite outlet and their register was broken.
3. My local Costco stopped carrying Diet Dr. Pepper.

I feel better now. Thanks for listening!

Wednesday, December 12, 2007

Christmas Dresses

We created our own photo studio at home, and got these adorable pictures of the girls in their Christmas dresses. Bye-bye Kiddie Kandids!


Wednesday, December 5, 2007

Successful Christmas Tree Hunting

Calling all Griswold homes

Bethany: Is your house on fire, Clark?
Clark: No, Aunt Bethany, those are the Christmas lights.



Nope, this isn't our house. The picture barely does justice to the shocking amount of Christmas flare adorning this house a few blocks from ours. Every year they add a little more to their display, working further to earn the name of "the Griswold house." So if any of you want to send a picture of the Griswold house near you, I'll put it on my blog.

In the spirit of the Griswold family Christmas, here are some more quotes from our favorite Christmas movie:

I don't know what to say, except it's Christmas and we're all in misery.

Todd: Well, something had to come through the window! Something had to break the stereo!
Margo: And why is the carpet all wet, *Todd*?
Todd: I don't *know*, Margo!

The most enjoying traditions of the season are best enjoyed in the warm embrace of kith and kin. Thith tree is a thymbol of the thpirit of the Griswold family Chrithmath.

Oh, that uh, that there's an RV.... But, don't you go falling in love with it now, because, we're taking it with us when we leave here next month.

Eddie: You surprised to see us, Clark?
Clark: Oh, Eddie... If I woke up tomorrow with my head sewn to the carpet, I wouldn't be more surprised than I am now.

How much would you guess this project cost?

Monday, December 3, 2007

Project Update

I finished my week of insane projects and I'm ready to refocus on the many other things on my plate. Here are some pictures of the projects.



The Table



Ty & I bought this table from the consignment shop when we first got married. Ever since we moved into our house the wood stain seemed too light. Our very first project was stripping and re-staining my grandmother's end tables and it was so much work we swore we'd never do that again. My only options with this table were to repaint. I painted it a dark brown with a black glaze. Between sanding, two coats of primer, two coats of paint, two coats of glaze, and two coats of polyurethane, I put enough hours in that I might as well have stripped and stained the thing. It looks really good right now, but I'm worried that the paint is going to scratch and chip before too long.


The Side Yard




I've tried planting all sorts of vines along this fence to beautify the side yard and give us some more privacy from our neighbors. Nothing seemed to grow well, but we didn't have enough planting space to plant something more substantial. We hired a guy to cut out a row of pavers, and Ty and I spent all Saturday planting these plants that will grow together and up to give a natural screen between us and our neighbors (we have about 15 feet between us and them). All we have left to do is plug the sprinkler nozzles into the drip hose we installed this spring. The most exciting part of this project was getting to use a pick ax.


Since we were on a roll, we decided to clean up the yard, pick the lemons, and put up Christmas lights. Last year our lemon tree produced about 5 lemons. This year it produced enough to fill two buckets. As you can see, we had to pick some of the lemons while they were still green because there were enough to almost snap the young tree in half. Anyone have any good lemon recipes?

Thursday, November 29, 2007

In over my head

Something happened to me this week. I've been itching to take on a project around the house. I've been so busy building the house across the street, traveling, and what not, that I haven't been doing the little projects I'm addicted to doing. I must be crazy to take on one more thing, but somehow I started two new projects. Now the kitchen table and chairs are half painted in the garage, the side yard is all torn up, and I'm freaking out. I have no time and I'm not totally convinced I haven't made a disaster of these projects. Wish me luck.

Jesus is Magic!

Last night, Ava and I were reading a book about Jesus. We got to the part where Jesus walked on water and calmed the storms and Ava proclaimed, "Jesus is magic!"

Thursday, November 22, 2007

It's Thanksgiving, and I'm grateful for two-year-olds!

Happy birthday sweet Lilly!







Tuesday, November 13, 2007

Travel Intinerary

Most of you are probably sick of these posts on my Morocco trip, but because my blog is the only form of journaling that works for me, I'm just going to summarize our trip itinerary.

Thursday 10/25 - Fly girls out to Utah - by myself! They were great on the plane.
Friday 10/26 - Fly back home, finish packing, catch an evening flight to London
Saturday 10/27 - Lovely London! Walk to Leicester square, eat some Indian food, watch the new musical, Desperately Seeking Susan.
Sunday 10/28 - Speaker's Corner, Harrods, Trafalgar Square, Churchill War Museum, Wagamamma's
Monday 10/29 - Early flight to Marrakech. Tour of Koranic school, hamman, and souk. Carriage ride to dinner in amazing home that was converted to a restaurant, with belly dancing and traditional Moroccan music.
Tuesday 10/30 - Tour of Mulley's house. Lunch on lake. Bike to foothills of Atlas mountains. Scariest drive ever into Atlas mountains to hotel.
Wednesday 10/31 - Hike to Berber village. Afternoon reading by the pool.
Thursday 11/1 - Drive almost to Essouira, bike to town. Henna tattoos. Drinks and dinner looking on the Atlantic.
Friday 11/2 - Shopping and reading on the beach. Camel ride on the beach. Tour of the medina. More shopping.
Saturday 11/3 - Drive back to Marrakech, shopping in the souk, fly back to London.
Sunday 11/4 - Fly back to SF and catch another plane to SLC to pick up the girls.
Monday 11/5 - Lots of hugging and kissing the girls. Fly home.

Impressions of Morocco

I've been putting off writing about it because there is so much to say, I don't know where to begin. I was a little nervous to travel to Morocco (not just because I saw Babel) because I didn't know what to expect when travelling to a Muslim country. I read a ton of conflicting information about dress, customs, and overall safety. As soon as we arrived in Marrakech and I saw the throngs of European families running around with young children I figured I had nothing to worry about. Here is a small summary of my experiences and impressions: Dress: Being a Muslim country, the majority of women were covered to some extent. Pretty much all of the women we saw were covered from wrist to ankle, and most had their heads covered. Some of the older women had an additional scarf tied over their faces, but this was rare. The few women I saw without their heads covered usually had an overall wealthy and modern look to them. We were told that more and more women are covering their heads since the aftermath of 9-11 to show solidarity with their people in an increasing ant-Muslim world.

Religion: We heard the call to prayer 5 times a day, wherever we were, but rarely saw people stopping to pray or entering the mosques. Like religions around the world, Islam has followers of varying degrees of faith and devotion with common social ties. The king is taking active steps against fundamentalists that promote terror, by requiring all imams (priests) to study at the same state-run Koranic school, and closing the mosques to post-prayer preaching, which tends to be where the fundamentalists spread their thinking.

Politics: While there is voting and a type of parliament, the king has absolute power over country. The new king is considered very progressive and has worked to make Morocco a better place for women, the poor, and touri$t$.

Food: Delicious!!! Lots of fresh fruits, vegetables, couscous, fresh bread, and meats. Most of their food is prepared in a tagine, a crock-pot of sorts, that steams and infuses the many delicious spices. The french influence also guaranteed some delicious pastries and desserts. Mint tea was served everywhere we went. One of our guides joked that Moroccans drink mint tea like Americans drink Coke.

The Berbers: The Berbers are the original inhabitants of Morocco. The name most likely comes from the term barbarian, but they aren't entirely sure. These people live mostly in the mountains, are Muslim, and tend to be looked down-upon and mistreated by the main, Arab population. When the French occupied Morocco, they never had complete control of the Berbers, who were able to maintain their independence by staying remote in the mountains.

Shopping: Every large town has a medina, an old, walled town. In these medinas are homes, mosques and souqs, or markets, where they make and sell just about everything. There you will find towers of spices, carved wood, leather and fabric goods, shoes, scarfs, metal lanterns, chandeliers...you name it. The souq winds around like a labyrinth, with vibrant colors and vivid smells. You have to dodge the flying sparks from the people welding metal and the motorcycles and donkeys passing through. Everything is cheap and you're expected to bargain hard for each thing. The bargaining was so intense that we ended up buying much less than we expected because it took up such a large amount of our time. Also, I worried that everything I took home would look like junk, once taken out of the intoxicating environment of the souq. Now that I have my little Moroccan treasures home, I wish I had bought more.

Transportation: CRAZY!!! I was scared to death on the drive from the airport to the hotel. There appeared to be no rhyme or reason to the way they drove, in addition to the roads being filled with mopeds, bicycles, donkeys, etc. We saw families of four piled on to a single motorcycle, young children sitting in baskets strapped to bikes. It went way beyond the lack of car seats and seat belts. You have to dart across streets like you're playing frogger because the traffic never stops. We travelled in Land Rovers with our bags and bikes strapped to the top, and eventually I got used to the different pace.

Monday, November 12, 2007

Morocco

Wednesday, November 7, 2007

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Wednesday, October 24, 2007

Halloween Party



Since we will be abandoning our children on Halloween to travel to far-off places, Katianne and I decided to throw a Halloween party for the kids, complete with bouncy house, pinata, and trick-or-treating. I even managed to dress up for the first time in 6 years.



Halloween is Ava's all-time favorite holiday. Her favorite movies are of the cheep, made-for-TV/DVD, kind (i.e. Pooh's Heffalump Halloween), which she watches year-round. When I told her it was time to put on her costume for the party, her face lit up and she ran from room to room gathering everything she needed, repeatedly proclaiming, "Happy Halloween!"

Pumpkin Patch

After a month of alternating illnesses, the girls were finally healthy enough to conquer the local pumpkin patch.





Wednesday, October 10, 2007

Who are all of these old people???

For the second time in a short while, I caught myself asking this same question. I got an email from my mission president, detailing the latest mission reunion, with a picture of everyone that attended. I was excited to see fellow missionaries, some whom I haven't seen in ten years, and eagerly scrolled down to find a picture of complete strangers. Who were all of these people, standing next to spouses and holding children? Certainly not the 19-22 year-olds that I remember.

It reminds me of an incident that took place a few months ago. I was eating lunch at the Dutch Goose with my family and noticed a group of men sitting at the table next to us. There was something oddly familiar about them, and I couldn't stop trying to place them. Suddenly it dawned on me that I went to middle school with these guys. I couldn't believe it - they were so old!

Even with two kids I still feel very much like the person I was 10 or 15 years ago. When I taught, it constantly plagued me that I had so recently been in the place that my students currently were. In retrospect, they probably saw me as some ancient, married, pregnant woman.

Monday, October 8, 2007

My Darling Girls

I'm amazed each day to see my children growing and becoming real people, with unique personalities, habits, likes, and choices. As exciting as it is to watch this process unfold, I constantly remind myself how precious this time is, and how quickly it will pass. Most days it feels like I will always be waist deep in diapers, playgrounds, sticky hands, and slobbery kisses, but I look at my girls and see how quickly they're growing and changing, and it's sobering.

Today I sat down and wrote down some of the sweet things that the girls are doing, so I don't forget.

AVA

* She listens to everything I say, repeats my common phrases, and questions everything. I can see myself better through her world.
* She wants to have her back scratched as incessantly as I do.
* She loves and has no fear of animals.
* She cannot go to preschool, church, dance, or the park without making new friends. She’s not shy and values her friendships, and she likes to list names of her favorite people and then state, “He’s/She’s my friend.”
*She’s just as happy to go camping and catch bugs as she is to dress up like a princess.
* She won’t let me answer the phone. That’s her job. She’ll talk to the caller, stranger and friend alike, until I wrangle the phone from her kung-fu grip.
* She’s totally obsessed with pregnancy and babies these days. She wants to know how babies get in mommies’ tummies. She wants to know how they get out. When she sees a pregnant woman she wants her to take the baby out so she can see it.
* She’s a highly empathetic person. She feels bad if people around her feel bad. She doesn’t like it when people laugh at her or other people. She sticks up for people if she feels like someone is mistreating them.
* If I try on clothes she says I look pretty. When she overheard me saying that I feel gross the other day she said, “No you’re not, mommy. You’re beautiful!”
* When she really likes something she says that it makes her heart happy.
* She was born with very little enamel on her teeth and recently got two crowns and five fillings. She can’t sit in front of a mirror without checking out her “new teeth” and rejoices that food no longer hurts her teeth.
* When I ask her what she wants to do, she often says, “Lets go to Target” or “Lets go to Costco.”
* She’s artistic and loves to paint and craft.

LILLY

* She sings the Happy Birthday song and Twinkle Twinkle Little Star throughout the day and in her crib at night.
* She’s overflowing with love and affection. She doles out kisses and says “I lu lu” (I love you) to just about everyone in her life.
* She has fluffy, curly hair that is always messy, emphasizing her already round, large head.
* If I leave her with a babysitter for the shortest amount of time she screams, “Mommy!” and runs to hug me as if I had been gone a week.
* She acts so old for her age. She’s only 22 months old and can carry on conversations and is almost potty trained.
* She dislikes nothing more than being away from her sister. No matter how special the activity we do while Ava’s at school, she asks for her sister the whole time.
* She loves men, especially the ones that are close in age to her daddy. In a room full of strangers, she’ll walk right up to these guys and want to sit on their laps and play with them. She won’t stay in nursery without a man in the room. We’re terrified for her teenage years.
* When she hears someone speaking Spanish she says “Hola!”
* She has no interest in TV or movies. This is not so great when I’m trying to cook dinner and the kids need a distraction, but otherwise great.

Friday, September 28, 2007

Officially Tired

I've obviously been a little slow to update the blog recently, but only because I'm too tired from all the fun stuff we've been doing. All I've wanted to do during my down time is finish the Twilight series (love it!), but now that that's done I guess I have some catching up to do. So what have we been up to?

Ava caught a caterpillar

Two weeks ago we went for an overnight camping trip at Memorial Park. It's a great camp site in the redwoods and it's only about 45 minutes from our house. We went with the Annisons and my parents, which cut the work load down significantly, because the kids were entertained and we had more hands to cook meals, etc. The most exciting parts of the camp trip had to been the 4 a.m. raccoon brawl and the crazy woman camping next to us who decided to rage at us for being too loud. She said she came up there for peace and quiet and didn't want to hear kids (who were being SO good BTW). Obviously this woman has no experience with group campsites if she expects total silence. Sigh.




Last weekend we went to Disneyland. If you're keeping track, yes, that's the third time we've been this year. We're not ashamed to say that we're Disney freaks, and our kids love it just as much each time. Julia, Sven and their 1 year old son, Finn were visiting from the Netherlands, so we took a special trip down with them, my parents and the Annisons. We rode the new Finding Nemo ride (it was a little overrated) and saw Harrison Ford and Kalista Flockhart, which was kind of cool. After passing them a second time in one day Tyler decided to say, "Hey Harrison! How's it going?" To which Harrison (we're on a first name basis now) replied, "Good."






Ava was finally tall enough (with the help of some strategically placed napkins in her shoes) to ride some of the big rides at Disneyland. She loved Soaring California, and like Splash Mountain until she got wet at the end. We took her on the Tower of Terror and have felt guilty ever since. She was totally freaked out. I guess just because you're big enough to do something doesn't mean you should. Her highlight of the trip was eating at Ariels Grotto and meeting all of the princesses.





So that's the latest from us. It's starting to feel like we're travelling so much that I only have time to wash our clothes and pack the bags again before we're off on our next adventure.

Thursday, September 13, 2007

Tour de Tahoe


Tyler wowed us all by participating in the Tour de Tahoe this weekend with my parents, Kim, Dan, Katianne, and Dan's mom, Cindy. He biked 72 miles around Lake Tahoe in 7 hours (and he didn't even train for it!). I'm not sure I could have completed it with only spin classes as preparation and no road bike, so I volunteered to babysit.

Go Ty!!!

Preschool Girl



The last few weeks have been a little busy between Tyler's new job and Ava starting pre-school, but life is pretty great for us Nielsons. Ava LOVES her new preschool. She seems so much more grown up since she started. She's 100% potty trained now during the day, gets along better with other kids (sister and cousins included), and has fewer temper tantrums with me. She's quickly making friends and learning social skills that make life easier. I think I'm loving her school as much as she is.



We bought her "first day of school" outfit a few weeks ahead of time and she patiently waited to wear it until that day. What she didn't quite understand was the concept that she wasn't going to wear that outfit every day that she goes to school. She felt the need to explain to all of her teachers that she wasn't wearing her heart shirt that second day because it was dirty.



WARNING! Personal Tangent:



I had some reservations about the preschool because it's located at a local church that I've had a bad experience with. When I was in high school I had an entire group of friends decide not to be my friend because I didn't go to that church. Well, in their minds they thought they were still my friends, but they stopped inviting me to do things with them because I wasn't "Christian." I ended up making better friends and it all worked out for the best, but I think I'm forever hurt by that and I blamed it on the messages they were getting from church. I'm happy to report that everyone there treats us wonderfully despite our evil Mormon ways and I remind myself every day that I can't blame an entire church for the actions of teenage girls.

Wednesday, August 22, 2007

My Favorite Pronunciations

Ava's:
sprinkables = sprinkles
alligator = elevator/escalator
rubber band aid = rubber band
ba-bum = bottom

Lilly's:
bee-bah = juice box
booger = booster
I lu-lu = I love you
caca = silka (aka blankie)
mi-mou = Mickey Mouse

The Name Game


Lilly is one smart little cookie. People are always shocked to learn how young she is for the type of things she can do. For instance, she basically started talking in sentences as soon as she started saying words. She also learned how to drive the kid's 4 wheeler that my parents bought for the grand kids. Ava can't even do it, but Lilly manages to hang off the side to reach the pedal, and she's pretty good at steering. Now she's asking to use the potty. The ease at which she learns things is the biggest benefit of having two kids so close together. She sees Ava learning things and wants to be just like her. She proudly reminds me everyday that she's a "big girl."


In her attempt to be more like Ava, she has decided to change Ava's name to match her own. We've all adjusted to the fact that when she says "Lilly" she means "Ava" -- to the degree that I'm now having trouble getting the two straight, and most often call them by the wrong name. I'm well aware that this is something that mother's routinely do. My own mom would have to run through the whole list of names, sometimes even the dog's, before finding the right one. The way I know that some of my mis-naming is due to Lilly's master plan is that I'm calling them both Lilly more often. Rarely do I call Lilly by the wrong name.


To make thing easier I should give up and just call them both by the same name. Then I'd never have to run through lists of names to get it right. Besides, we almost gave Ava the name Lilly. I hear that George Foreman named all his kids George, and Michael Jackson's are named Prince. Maybe instead of this being an example of their eccentricity, it's really an example of their practicality.

Friday, August 17, 2007

Vegas Baby!

Tyler and I have been married 5 years today. He and I are spending our anniversary in the typical way, with him at a sales conference and me watching the kids. I'm celebrating in my own special way by hanging out with my parents at Tahoe. Since he's got the free hotel room and we have some free Southwest trips, I was able to meet him for one day in Las Vegas.

I was only there for 24 hours, but managed to fit in a ton of fun. While Ty was in his meetings I treated myself to some time at the spa and the pool. Then we had dinner on the lake at the Belg, where we caught a few of the water shows. Then we saw The Producers, and finished the night with an Aerosmith concert. Those guys put on an awesome show.

Vegas (the strip) is a weird place, and I never like to be there for more than a day. It's on over-the-top attempt to recreate these wonderful places in the world. A grown-up, sin-inspiring amusement park. While most of it is tacky, some of it is pretty spectacular. Regardless, none of it is much like the real thing. I've been to the real Bellagio on Lake Como, I've been on the Eiffel Tower in Paris, and as much as they'd like you to feel that you're being transported to these places, it's a far cry from the real thing. The thing I like most about Vegas are the shows. Many of the venues are built for a specific show. The moving stage for Ka alone, makes the show worth seeing.

In any case, we had a blast. I can't believe that Ty and I have been married for 5 years. In some respects it has gone so fast, and 5 years seems like a long time. But mostly it seems like a short time. A ton has happened in those five years - like 2 kids! - and it's odd to think of a time when we weren't a part of each other's lives. I don't think that marriage is easy for anyone, but I feel like we've got it pretty good. Tyler is an amazing husband and father. He's upbeat and fun, adventurous, loving, and works hard for us. He makes me want to be a better person, and I think I do the same for him. Here's to many more years!

Friday, August 3, 2007

100 Things About Me

I had so much fun reading Alyssa's list of 100 things about herself that I was inspired to do the same. So without further ado, here is my list of everything you might not know (or might not want to know) about me.


1. I share the same name as one of my mom’s cows (she grew up on a dairy farm).
2. I think touching car upholstery, especially the fabric on the ceiling, is like nails on a chalkboard. It has the worst texture.
3. If I could pick just 3 foods to eat for the rest of my life (and it wouldn’t kill me) I would pick pizza, bean & cheese burritos, and chocolate peanut butter ice cream.
4. When I’m bored I like to look at dogs for adoption on the internet.
5. I would like to adopt a child someday, and have wanted to long before Brangelina made it popular.
6. There is no feeling I hate more than being pregnant, but I love the labor & delivery part.
7. I just started taking spin classes, which are miserable, yet strangely addicting.
8. The most fun I’ve ever had was doing study abroad in London for 4 months.
9. The hardest thing I’ve ever done was go on a mission to Madrid, Spain.
10. I’m uncomfortable around small children in general (except my own) but I love being around teenagers.
11. I enjoy oil painting, but don’t have the time and space to do it.
12. I learned to play the hand bells in middle school.
13. I was in several choirs growing up.
14. I took piano lessons for several years.
15. I took guitar lessons for 2 years.
16. I cannot sing, read music, or play an instrument, but I love listening to music.
17. I’m in the same church ward I was in growing up.
18. I live in the same town I grew up in.
19. I taught English and Reading at my own high school.
20. I love feeling connected to people and places, but dream of the adventure of starting out new someplace else.
21. I love to travel abroad, and I’ve been to Mexico, South Africa, Zambia, Zimbabwe, Botswana, England, Scotland, Ireland, France, Spain, Italy, New Zealand, Peru, Ecuador, Belize, and Honduras.
22. I also love going to my parent’s vacation places in Tahoe and Maui over and over again.
23. I believe that Disneyland IS the happiest place on earth.
24. I think the second happiest place on earth is the Rancho la Puerta spa, where I spent a week this winter with my mom and sisters.
25. I can be really shy, especially in large groups, and even around good friends and family.
26. I HATE calling people on the phone, because I’m so shy.
27. People have occasionally interpreted my shyness as snobbery.
28. I can spend hours on end gardening, but I don’t know what I’m doing.
29. My favorite date is dinner and a movie.
30. My favorite restaurant foods are Indian & Thai.
31. I think breakfast food tastes best at dinner time.
32. I love the sound of my girls squealing and laughing.
33. I’m scared of the ocean, except when I’m scuba diving.
34. I dove with sharks in Roatan in January. They swarmed about 3 feet around me and I was only a tiny bit scared.
35. I love getting massages, manicures and pedicures, but I’m too cheap to enjoy those often.
36. I’m not too cheap to have someone clean my house for me.
37. I can be a complete slob when I’m overwhelmed with life.
38. I work best under pressure and after procrastinating.
39. My best grades were for papers that I stayed up writing the night before they were due.
40. I like to cook, but I hate shopping for ingredients. Thus I don’t cook often.
41. My favorite American authors are Willa Cather, Steinbeck, and Toni Morrison.
42. I love to read and write, but I can’t spell.
43. I’d rather write essays than take multiple choice or true-false tests.
44. I have a hard time retaining facts and trivia, especially long-term – I’m much better with analytical information.
45. Math was my second favorite subject in school, but I can barely remember basic algebra now.
46. I only dated my husband for 8 months before getting married, but I had known him for 2 years.
47. I first started getting treated as an “old maid” when I came home from my mission. I was only 22.
48. I held out until I was 25 to get married, and I still think that was young.
49. I’m a registered Republican, but I don’t really consider myself as one. The far right bugs me even more than the far left.
50. My birthday marks the anniversary of when Paul Revere rode his horse to announce the arrival of the “red coats” and the 1906 earthquake in San Francisco.
51. I was riding a horse during the 1989 Loma Prieta Earthquake. My horse bucked and reared, but I managed to stay on.
52. I’m a night owl and definitely not a morning person.
53. I have a hard time saying no to other people.
54. I’ve been terrified of flying ever since I saw a made-for-TV movie about a flight in Hawaii where the top of the plane ripped off, but I probably fly at least 6 times (round trip) a year.
55. I’ve never been in a car accident while driving.
56. I love to drive fast, especially when it’s a European car.
57. I’ve only been pulled over by a police officer twice in my life. The first time was when I was 24 and I got a speeding ticket. The second time was the very next day, for speeding again. I cried my way out of that ticket.
58. I’ve never seen anyone die.
59. I can brush my hair until it becomes a huge fro.
60. In middle school, the boys would tease me by throwing little balls of paper in my hair, which would get stuck until someone told me they were there. I got in the habit of running my fingers through my hair just to make sure there wasn’t anything embarrassing lodged in there.
61. A tennis ball ricocheted off my racket and got stuck in my pony tail during practice.
62. I spend more time brushing snarls out of my hair after a shower than I spend doing anything else to my hair all day.
63. I have dry skin and go through more lotion than anyone I know.
64. My husband could scratch/rub my back all day and it still wouldn’t be enough.
65. My favorite movie snacks are diet coke, kettle corn, and junior mints.
66. I prefer low budget/independent films over blockbuster movies.
67. Since I became a mom, I can’t watch movies where children are hurt or threatened in any way.
68. I’ve been called to jury duty two times, but never selected to be on a jury.
69. I’m addicted to TV programs on Thursday nights. Except during the summer, I need two Tivo’s with two tuners each to catch all my favorite shows on that night. You’d think I’d space out watching them throughout the week, but I’m usually too excited to wait more than a day.
70. I’ve become a less judgmental person with age.
71. I try to be open minded about other people and the choices they make. It’s too hard to understand everything that happens to a person to make them who they are.
72. If I had to go back, I would make different decisions about my life; but now that I’m here, I wouldn’t change it for anything.
73. I cannot sleep at night unless I read first.
74. I used to suffer from frequent nights of insomnia. Since having kids, I’m too exhausted (mentally and physically) to have that problem.
75. I don’t think there is one right way to parent a child. Each parent and child is going to need something different.
76. I sucked my thumb until I was 10.
77. I had braces two times in middle school.
78. I’ve played soccer since I was 6, but rarely get a chance to play now.
79. I’m a klutz. I’m constantly tripping, bumping into things, and dropping stuff.
80. Tonight at dinner I knocked my glass of water all over myself.
81. I hate wearing wet clothing. Even when it’s a swimming suit. I’ve passed this phobia on to my daughter.
82. I’m always losing my keys, cell phone, wallet, sunglasses…pretty much anything important.
83. I snow ski and wakeboard. Compared to most people I’m pretty good, but compared to my siblings I’m a wimp.
84. I love to ride on the front of a boat, as the sun sets on a really hot day.
85. I’m getting tired of writing this list, and wishing I could be on that boat.
86. One Christmas Eve, I woke up and felt someone push my head back down to my pillow. I swore it was Santa, not wanting me to see him. To this day my family teases me about “Santa pushing my head down.”
87. I was 9 years old before I knew the truth about Santa.
88. I saw the movie “Poltergeist” when I was way too young. From that point on I would leap onto my bed at night, for fear of a scary clown lurking below.
89. I saw “Poltergeist” as an adult and thought the clown scene was pretty stupid.
90. I don’t want to use the word “stupid” around my kids. Or “hate”. I’ve used both words on this list.
91. I didn’t learn to read until about 2nd grade. I just wasn’t interested. Once I started I never stopped.
92. As an English major, with a master’s degree in education, I’m living proof that parents don’t need to freak out if their kids aren’t reading before they start kindergarten.
93. I’ve started worrying about Ava being able to read before she’s in Kindergarten. Really I should be worrying that she’ll be potty trained by then.
94. I’m managing the design and construction of a spec house that my parents are building across the street from my house.
95. Every day I think of things I’d like to change or add to my house if we had the money. Instead I just move furniture and accessories around every few weeks.
96. I could shop at Target and Costco every day.
97. If water conservation and limited hot water weren’t an issue, I could stay in the shower forever.
98. I don’t feel clean after a shower unless I’ve shaved my legs and brushed my teeth.
99. I’m addicted to “So You Think You Can Dance?” and think I want to take dance lessons now, which would be a complete disaster.
100. I feel pressure to make my last thing profound, but mostly I’m just happy to be done with this list!

Wednesday, August 1, 2007

Grand Prix


Tyler is a Formula 1 junkie. I have reconciled myself to the fact that I will have to spend many a weekend listening to the vroom-vroom noise in my house for hours on end as he watches not only the actual races, but the practice and qualifying sessions. Horrifyingly, I have managed to pick up enough about the sport to know how the races work and the names some of the drivers. For example, I know that the hottest new racer is a guy from England named Hamilton who managed to be on the podium more times than anyone else in their rookie year. He races for McLaren along with Fernando Alonso, from Spain, who is the reining champion. I also know that one of the worst racers (and the only American) is Scott Speed, and he's from Modesto. So sad that I know this.

Now Tyler is passing his love of racing to his children. We went to the San Jose Grand Prix this weekend to watch the qualifying races. I have to admit, the noise of the cars alone was pretty spectacular. We even got to see a crash.

Brain Leeches

I think my kids are brain leeches. I used to have a decent vocabulary. I could also remember names of people, streets, locations. Now I try to speak and the words have disappeared - gone. It's especially worse on days like today when they are clinging, whining, and fighting relentlessly. I wonder if the words are erased forever, or if they'll reemerge when my kids grow up and develop more complex vocabulary themselves.

Congratulations Tyler!!!


Today was a big day for Tyler, as he is now a manager! He just got promoted to being Systems Engineering Manager for the Silicon Valley Commercial Sales team at Cisco. He's been on the team for a little under two years as a Systems Engineer, designing networks and selling them to small-medium sized businesses in the valley, which has been exciting. He gets to work with tons of start-up companies that are changing the way the world works and plays (i.e. Netflix!). All-in-all he's been in super-technical roles in the industry for about 8 years. Now he'll be managing his group, and he's excited to move to a role that focuses more on business strategy. He may think that he can hide his inner-geek with this new role, but we'll all know the truth - he'll always have a little bit of "routertyty" in him.
As a side note, I tried to explain the promotion concept to Ava yesterday so she could make a special card for Tyler. I told her that daddy was getting a new job, a new office, etc. She had a really confused look on her face, until I told her that daddy was going to make a little more money. Her face lit up and she asked "For me?" As soon as he walked in the door she said, "Hi daddy! I made a birthday card for you. Do you have money for me?"

Thursday, July 26, 2007

July Travels

In addition to travelling most of this month, I also spent time developing one of my most highly developed talents - procrastination. For those of you who have been disappointed by the subsequent lack of posting this month, do not fear. In one posting I plan to catch up entirely.

4th of July



Every year my parents rent a houseboat for the week of the 4th of July on Lake Don Pedro (about 45 minutes northwest of Yosemite). We spend the time skiing, wake boarding, swimming, lounging, reading, and eating. There is a huge fireworks display that we can watch while floating on the boat and listening to patriotic music. The weather is always hot, but this year it was almost unbearable. Lets give a cheer for air conditioned houseboats!

This year my dad brought several kiddie fishing rods for "the kids" to learn to fish. Of course the kids only had patience for about 5 minutes of that so we happily kept watch over their fishing poles. The most luck we had was with a tiny fish that went after Ava's worm that was dangling in the water before I cast the line out. I grabbed the net and managed to scoop him up and put him in a bucket of water for the kids to see before releasing him back in the water.





Utah







We loaded up the minivan and road tripped out to Salt Lake for an extended week to spend time with Ty's family. His sister's family was also visiting from Dallas, so everyone was there. Ava and Lilly loved spending time with their cousins that they get to see too rarely. With all the kids and 100 degree weather it was difficult to do much, but we did manage to go boating, ride the alpine slides in Park City, shop, and hit the Harry Potter midnight release party.


One of the highlights of the trip was that I got to spend a kid-free night with my girlfriends from London. It's been 10 years since we were there and it's amazing how much our lives have changed, yet how close we still feel to each other. We stayed up till 3 in the morning reminiscing and talking about our lives, education, family, religion, politics...pretty much everything. I feel like a fairly liberal-minded person in comparison to the traditionally conservative culture of Mormonism, but these women share most of my views, which is rare in my experience. Since getting married and having kids, it's much harder to take the time to establish new friendships. The evening was a nice reminder that the greatest friends are the ones you can still love and be connected to whether you see them every day or every ten years.

Another highlight was going to Provo to see BYU. It seems like the campus was under construction the entire time I was there, so it was fun to see the changes, but even better was the memories that flooded in just by driving through town and walking around campus. It seemed that every building, restaurant, store, and street brought back a slew of memories, some of which I had forgotten entirely, such as the bell tower playing "come, come ye saints" and tunnel singing (yep, I'm a dork). Just driving past the MTC was amazing.




Tahoe

We weren't as ambitious driving back from Salt Lake and decided to split the trip up into two days, meeting my parents in Tahoe. We had a beautiful day biking, boating, and watching Taming of the Shrew performed on the beach at night.


The Deathly Hallows

As excited as I was to get back to normal life once we returned, I ended up retreating more into obscurity as I poured through the final Harry Potter book. I got it at the midnight release party, but with the drive and such, wasn't able to get much read until I came home. I was a terrible mom, ignoring my children and letting them watch movies on end, continuously promising them that when I was done we would do so many fun things. Finishing the series was bitter sweet.

Sunday, July 1, 2007

Sometimes there is no substitute for a rake


Over the past year, we have become part of an elite group of Californians who do something few others can - our own yard work. It's so cheap here that it's easy to justify getting a service, but Ty and I decided that we really enjoy doing it ourselves and our yard's never looked better. Like other tasks we divide and conquer when it comes to the yard. Tyler is primarily in charge of taking care of the grass, and I'm primarily in charge of the flower beds. We live on a 6,000 square foot lot, so it really doesn't take that much effort, unless I decide that I feel like planting. One of these days I'll post some pictures of our work.


People sometimes ask how I learned to garden. I don't really have an answer for that, because I still don't know what I'm doing. I usually stumble upon plants I like and stick them in the ground. Most of the time I end up moving them to different spots until they flourish or die. I also follow this pattern when it comes to decorating my house.


Yesterday, I was blowing leaves and sticks and such from the planting beds and started getting really frustrated. As fun as a leaf blower is, you can easily make a bigger mess if you're not careful. It's OK for a quick pass through the yard, and for cleaning off porches and patios, but sometimes there is no substitute for a rake. Sure, a rake takes more effort and time, but nothing is better at clearing out all the old garbage that collects around and under the plants. I'm always surprised with how much I dig out, and afterwards how fresh and renewed it looks.


As I was contemplating the genius that is the rake, I couldn't help but think about the correlation with life. We can make quick efforts to deal with personal issues, work, and relationships, but sometimes there is no substitute for taking the time to really dig in and do the work that needs to be done.


Here are some examples of what I'm thinking:


You can spend time managing your kids, or you can spend time interacting with you kids.


You can go to church, or you can take the time to ponder and practice your beliefs.


You can show up for work everyday, or you can....Ok, you get the idea. And I have to say that I'm definitely guilty of leafblowing my way through much of life, but on occasion I try to pull out the rake.

Friday, June 29, 2007

Farmers Market

The Los Altos Farmers Market is back for the summer and we've decided to make it a Thursday night tradition. It's fun to walk down the street sampling fresh fruits, veggies, and other delicious treats. We watched a guy make naan by flattening dough balls and sticking them on the inner wall of a large metal drum. Did you know that's how it's made? For dinner we ate fresh corn on the cobb.






Tuesday, June 26, 2007

Burn Baby, Burn


Our favorite hiking place, which is known to all as "the dish" caught fire yesterday. The dish is located in the foothills above Stanford University and used to be a series of meandering paths, some of which lead to two large satellite dishes. About 7 years ago they closed of the majority of the area for environmental reasons and created one long paved loop which has become wildly popular for hikers and joggers. The loop is a little over 3 miles long, and has some pretty steep hills that will kick your butt and amazing scenery and wildlife to go along with it. On clear days you can see all the way to San Francisco.

We loaded up the kids and drove as close to the fire as we could to watch the helicopters and planes dropping loads of water on the fire. It was most entertaining, but the whole time I wondered what happened to those little oak tree sapling I helped plant back in high school to replace others destroyed in a previous fire. Sigh.

Sunday, June 24, 2007

Foot Fetish

Ava's first footsteps in the beach.



Most people feel indifferent about them. Some people think they're gross. But some people love them. I'm talking about feet, of course, and Tyler is in the "love 'em" camp. At least when it comes to my feet and our girls feet. That is why we have photo documentation of our feet from the time that Tyler got his first digital camera. I'll spare you pictures of my own feet, but I have to agree with Tyler that our girls have scrumptious feet. Here are my favorites.


Ava's newborn feet.


Lilly's newborn feet.

Lilly's feet poking out of the crib at night.









Tuesday, June 12, 2007

New Movie Reviews

If you noticed, on the right hand column of my blog is a link to another page with movie reviews. I added a few new posts over the last two days, so check it out if you want (no pressure).

A funny side story about one of the films: There is a new theater in Redwood City that we like going to. It's close, in a newly renovated part of downtown, has nice stadium seating, and is situated right next to a store that sells just cream puffs (mmmm....). The only downside is that it's in a place that attracts an interesting crowd at times. We were never more aware of this than the time we went to see The Host. The girl selling us the tickets actually tried to talk us out of seeing the movie because it's subtitled!

Girl: You know it's a Korean movie.
Us: Yes, we'll have two tickets.
Girl: It's subtitled.
Again we assured her that this is the film we wanted to see.
Girl: Well, some people go in there, not realizing it's subtitled, and decide they want to see something else.

Monday, June 4, 2007

Two Things

Ava's been doing two funny things today. The first is that she's been peeing her pants all day long. At first I thought maybe she's just tired or having a little regression, until I noticed that every time she had an accident, she'd run upstairs and change into an entirely different outfit, shoes and all, and come back downstairs looking like she's hot stuff. The accidents were allowing her to play dress-up.

The second thing is that she's been playing funny make-believe games. I broke down some packaging in the garage for recycling this morning and it kept her busy all day. Mostly she's been building a dog house for Tato and a piano. Then she started giving us presents. She sticks her hand in her shirt, under her armpit, and pulls out all sorts of pretend "surprises," including candy bracelets and different flavors of bubble gum. I wish I had an imagination that kept me busy all day.

Friday, June 1, 2007

Tahoe in the Spring

We have a family tradition to travel to Lake Tahoe every Memorial Day weekend, as it usually coincides with my mom's birthday. One of the greatest things about Tahoe is that it offeres two entirely different vacation places, depending on what time of year you go. It's always fun to go in the winter when it's snowing so you can ski, sled, and just stay cozy by the fire, but its even better when there isn't snow and you can boat, hike, and ride bikes. Here are some pictures of the fun things we did over the weekend.




Throwing rocks on the beach.

Walking the path along the shore to "dog beach." Tato thought the water was too cold to swim.

Hiking the Rubicon Trail from Emerald Bay.

Brother-in-law bonding (a.k.a. golfing).

Eating clams at Camp Richardson. Ava loved opening the shell, eating the meat, and sucking the juices out - eww!

Roasting Marshmellows

Spending time with daddy.

Riding on Pa's boat.